We saved up all our pennies for 5 years because we needed a new car. The old truck was on the road for 2 or 3 years longer than we would have liked. We shared my car last year because winter safety and then general safety, was more important than me getting out of the house, which was a bit difficult sometimes, but it's what was needed. We did without a lot, stopped purchasing unnecessary stuff, used our leftovers, stopped eating out at restaurants, carefully weighed costs vs expectations for classes etc, and I mended a lot of clothes. It's not that we did totally without, as we took small vacations etc but were actively saving for the car first, now a new roof and to get 2 mature trees professionally removed because the previous owner planted them in a stupid spot: both of them in different stupid spots!
So why do some people find this an issue? Like I'm supposed to just go and spend whatever I want whenever, when I have a budgeted amount of mad money for the year and refuse to go over my budgeted amount? I have to pick and choose what I do, and I'm okay with it. Somehow I don't think anyone else should be ticked off that we chose to find a way to make our budget work well for us!
Rant over and it was due to comments and actions of some acquaintances and friends. And nope, just because we have our car now, I still can't afford to get that or do that. By the way the car is nice. It's not horribly special or exotic but all cars are stupidly expensive right now, so what can you do?
This little guy, or his relatives have lived in our woodpile since we moved here. He's not overly tamed or friendly but he's getting better about not racing off as soon as I try to take a picture of him. I'm not a huge fan of small rodent creatures living this close to the house, but he's better than some it could be. I do mean that I'd freak a bit if there was a honking huge rat sitting there, like we used to see sometimes on the farm! We lived on a road with almost all dairy farms, so there were tons of them when someone tried to eradicate them from a barn. ICK!